In scripture, when we start in the wrong place, we end up with the wrong result. Take this familiar passage, for example: “Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice! Let your gentleness be evident to all. The Lord is near. Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus” (Philippians 4:4-7). When teaching this passage, we often focus on the parts that tell us to rejoice, be thankful and not be anxious. This is unfortunate because making those words the centre of the message does not help. If I am sad, telling me to rejoice is useless. If I could find a spi...