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               The Brooklyn Bridge is one of the most loved and iconic structures in New York City, but it was not always that way.   When it was completed in 1883, it was the longest suspension bridge in the world and many New Yorkers did not believe it was strong enough to survive.   Many refused to go anywhere near it.                This fear reached its height six days after its grand opening when a lady fell down a set of stairs leading off the bridge.   As she fell, she screamed and that scream caused someone on the bridge to panic and yell, “The bridge is collapsing!”    This started a stampede as everyone pushed toward the exits.   People pushed, shoved, and ran over one another, resulting in twelve people dying in the ensuing chaos.                More than any other emotion, fear is dangerous and contagious.   Fear-based thinking hinders prog

 Three facts about fear and what is required to face it well (Here is a hint... the answer is not "Be Braver" or "Try harder!")  

 

                  Jumbo, a supermarket chain in the Netherlands, recently introduced a new checkout called a Kletskassa, which translates to “chat checkout”.   This is a lane for those who are not in a rush and would like to chat with their cashier.                   The idea began when it was revealed that 33% of seniors in the country felt lonely and disconnected from their neighbours and their communities.   Realizing that their grocery stores acted as meeting places in the community, Jumbo intentionally created spaces where people could connect.   In addition to the new slow lane, the stores have also installed “chat corners” where customers can have a cup of coffee and visit.   The project has been so popular with the older age group that the slow lane is now open to anyone who would like a short visit as they go about their day.                I believe that we need some slow lanes in our lives!   When asked, “How are you?” most people reply, “I am fine”, but people are not

 On a day that we honour mothers for their love and care, we talk about applying those attitudes to our spiritual family.  

 Thoughts on how to spend our days well - 1 Peter 4:7-11  

                 Today is my granddaughter’s second birthday.   Typically, our family does not make a big deal about birthdays.   In fact, I think that my mom should be given a gift on my birthday because she did all the work.   I just showed up.   However, my granddaughter’s birthday feels different to me.                  As I sit here thinking about the last two years, it makes me smile.   I can hear her laugh.   I can see her smile.   I remember what it felt like to hold her for the first time.   I look forward to the summer and going to the playground with her.   I enjoyed my children when they were young, but having a grandchild has been pure joy and fun!                What I cannot explain to you is why I feel this way.   By the normal measurements of value and success that we usually apply, my granddaughter does not rate very well.   She does not have an income.   In fact, she has cost her parents a great deal in terms of money, effort, and sleepless nights.   She does not