The meeting had the potential to be a disaster! The topics on the agenda were liable to cause heated discussion and several board members had strong opinions about what ought to happen. I also knew that others had equally strong opposing ideas. It was not going to be fun. You have probably been in a similar situation. Whether in meetings, or in interpersonal relationships, we often have to navigate the tension that comes when people do not see things eye to eye. Churches are not immune to disagreements. In fact, one entire section of the book of Romans deals with a discussion that was going on in the church at Rome. The interesting part of that section is not issue that they were arguing about, or even the conclusion that they reached. What I like is the advice that Paul gave them. He did not choose sides. He did not tell one group that they were right and the other was wrong. Instead, he said, “Let us therefore m