I am selfish and like to be left alone! There, I said it. I want to do my own things, in my own time, in my own way. I do not want to rearrange my whole day to help others. Given the choice, I would spend every day off working in my garage by myself. My idea of a great holiday includes an island in the middle of a lake in northern Saskatchewan, a canoe, a tent and silence. However, there are two problems with that sort of thinking. First, many people have gone out of their way to help me over the years. Tons of people put their own selfish desires to the side so that they could help me and teach me things that I did not know. Had they acted selfishly, I do not know how my life would have turned out. Second, and more im...