Skip to main content

Indirect Joy

At a news conference in December, the Nobel Prize winners gave away their secret strategies for winning the prestigious, $1.5 million award: Don’t try!

One man, who shared the Physics award, said that winning “requires creativity, humour and patience, with little aspiration to actually win”. The other man added, “It’s definitely extremely detrimental to think that you can win the Nobel Prize; then it basically occupies your mind… if you think and deliberately try to win the Nobel Prize there is something wrong”.

The winner of the Chemistry award agreed saying, “I did not plan it, or try to do it, it just came by itself”.

The winner of the Economics prize summed up his approach by saying, “Anyone who’s engaged in creative life – whether they’re a scientist, economist, writer or artist – has many ‘aha’ moments, many moments to discovery, otherwise they would not be doing it… they do not do it with some golden prize at the end”.

Their philosophy may be summed up by saying, “Focus on the important stuff and success will come.”

I think that is good advice for life in general. You cannot aim at “Happiness” or at “A good life”. Those things are not goals. Rather they are by-products of a life that is lived with “the important stuff” at the center.

When people do make “my own happiness” the goal, the results are often disastrous. How many lives have you seen derailed because people are living only for themselves? How many marriages are “blown up” each year simply because someone decided to “search for happiness” elsewhere? It seems that much of our trouble is caused by our own inability to get out of our own way.

Jesus, though, in many contexts and with many applications, taught us to think differently.

“If you grasp and cling to life on your terms, you'll lose it, but if you let that life go, you'll get life on God's terms” (Luke 17:33, The Message).

“If anyone wants to be first, he must be the very last and the servant of all” (Mark 9:35).

What if the key is to get the focus off of me? What if the things I truly need (such as peace, joy, love and forgiveness) cannot be aimed at but, rather, come as by-product of a life lived for God and for others?

That could be the greatest discovery of all. It is certainly worth a try.

“I came that they may have and enjoy life, and have it in abundance (to the full, till it overflows)” – Jesus’ words from John 10:9 (The Amplified Bible).

Comments

Popular posts from this blog

New Article: Grace Changes Everything

               A young man broke into a business and did $5000 damage. As part of his Restorative Justice sentence, he was required to meet with my friend Garth.   Garth believes in making apologies and restitution.   It took several months, but Garth finally convinced the young man that these were necessary steps, so he tried to arrange a meeting with the business owner.                The business owner wanted nothing to do with this situation.   He was angry and wanted a more severe form of justice.   Eventually, however, he agreed to meet the young man to hear what he had to say.                  The young man looked the business owner in the eye an...

New Article: Navigating the New Year

                 As we begin another new year, I cannot help but think of Joshua.   Moses had been leading God’s people to the promised land.   However, just before they arrived, Moses died, and Joshua was put in charge.   Faced with the uncertainty of what was coming, God gave him the following advice.                “Be strong and very courageous. Be careful to obey all the law my servant Moses gave you; do not turn from it to the right or to the left, that you may be successful wherever you go. Keep this Book of the Law always on your lips; meditate on it day and night, so that you may be careful to do everything written in it. Then you will be prosperous and successful. Have I not commanded you? Be stron...

New Article: We need a Better Scorecard

                   “Is that a Sun Ice?”                “Excuse me,” I said.                My friend pointed to my new ski jacket and asked again, “Is that a Sun Ice?”                It was 1991 and Sun Ice was the big name in ski wear at the time.   “No” I replied, “I can’t afford one of those”.                “Oh” he said as he lost interest and then just walked away.                I had not seen this friend in more than a year and, sadly, his first ...