A friend of
mine, who had just gone through a life changing tragedy said, “I knew it was
coming, but I had no idea how bad it would feel!”
That is the
issue, isn’t it? The feelings we go
through are often the hardest part of the journey. Most things are not unbearable. I mean, in a physical sense, if you had to
get out of bed and face the day you probably could. It is the “feeling” that we can’t face a
certain issue or event that makes it difficult.
To make
matters worse, places that should acknowledge those feelings and help us deal
with them often do not. Take church for
example. Churches should be full of people
who are there for one another and who are ready to listen and “bear one
another’s burdens” (Galatians 6:2). Too
often, though, we dress up and act as if nothing is happening in our life
(whether good or bad). “How are you
today?” always gets the same response, “I am fine!” whether that is true or
not.
Now, I am
not suggesting that you unload your “emotional dump truck” on everyone that you
meet. I do, however, believe that real
faith can only be created when real people come to the real God. Part of being a real person is dealing with
real emotions.
Interestingly,
the word of God deals with emotions all the time. In fact, we have an entire book called
“Lamentations” (Literally “Crying”). A
full two-thirds of the Psalms are “laments” and “complains” and the others are
full of words like “rejoice” and “praise”.
In the gospels, we are often told what Jesus was feeling. We read that at the tomb of Lazarus “Jesus
wept” (John 13:35). Seeing the crowds, he
had “compassion” on them (Mark 6:34).
When the religious leaders put rules before mercy, Jesus looked at them
in “anger” (Mark 3:5). Jesus’ emotions
are front and centre because they are part of the story of his faithfulness.
I do not
know how you feel about your life right now, but I do know this: You do not have to be “perfect” or “Have your
act together” to come to church. None of
us “Have our act together” – that is why we are here.
I know this
too: If you share who you really are,
with God and with others, you will find hope!
Christian hope is not based on wishful thinking, rather it is based on
the knowledge that God loves you, that he is near and that he is working things
out (Romans 8:28)
In the end,
that feeling of hope could be your greatest spiritual possession.
“Be strong
and take heart, all you who hope in the Lord” - Psalm 31:24
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