During our worship time, we used to sing action songs with the kids. One of the most popular songs said, “If you’re happy and you know it, clap your hands”. I often wondered, “How many of the people here today are clapping their hands because they are supposed to and not because they are happy?” Worship services often seem to be set up for those who are happy. We sing happy songs. We read scriptures that promise great blessings. Someone teaches about how God cared for his people in the past. We smile and shake hands and say, “I am fine” when we are asked how we are doing. ...